Lavender Match

How it works

Simple, private, mutual.

Every step needs your consent. Nothing about you is shared by default.
  1. 01

    Create your profile

    Choose an anonymous name. Add what matters: orientation, religion, community, mother tongue, city and what kind of marriage you want. Your real name is stored separately and never shown.

  2. 02

    Find a match

    Discover members based on relationship, cultural and life preferences. Profiles are only visible to signed-in members — never to search engines.

  3. 03

    Match

    Send interest. You connect only when the other person accepts. No one can message you without a mutual match.

  4. 04

    Reveal

    Photos, real names and contact details stay private until you both choose to share them.

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